" There is an almost sensual
longing for communion with others who have a larger vision. The
immense fulfillment of
the friendships between those engaged in furthering the evolution
of consciousness has a quality almost impossible to describe."
- Teilhard de Chardin
by Pali Delevitt and Billy Fenster, American Medical Student Association's
The New Physician, October 2000
On an awkward and uncertain Friday night, 41 members
of the University of Florida College of Medicine’s (UFCOM) second-year class
ventured to a wooded retreat center to get to know one another
outside the walls of everyday medical school life. The retreat
offered a chance for us to begin to share our worlds and world-views. We have found it beneficial for us as medical
students to pull out of our everyday intensive grind. It’s important for us to put
ourselves in a place where we come closer to our authentic selves
and see the beauty of the individuals with whom we share the dream
and path of becoming a physician. Retreats foster humanity, compassion
and the beauty of the human spirit—these are all characteristics
central to serving patients.
Our retreat may start with an early morning Tai Chi session, led
by Dr. Wayne Jonas, a retreat co-facilitator. After Tai Chi, a group
assembles in the kitchen to prepare a healthy, delicious breakfast
for everyone. Some of our best times are spent in the kitchen or
around the big communal dining table, sharing food and animated discussion
about our lives, our hopes and our challenges.
During the day, we spend time in small and large
group sessions, as well as on our own. We explore our relationship
to touch and its
potential for healing in a series of ‘‘hands—on
exercises. We learn how to listen and really hear one another both
through experiential training and sitting in a large group sharing
our feelings and stories. We discover the world of nature surrounding
us by interacting with it, either through “awareness walks” or
through the challenges of a rope course. We examine our limits and
often move beyond them.
The evenings are often the time for the realms
of imagination. Drumming and chanting guide us on a “Shamanic Journey”. We build
a campfire, singing and dancing, and still more drumming as the smoke
rises and we toast s’mores. We stay up late singing to guitar
music or quietly sharing our stories with each other. And in the
morning we share the dreams we have remembered.
Many students have expressed a deep appreciation
of their retreat experience. “Retreats give us an opportunity to relax and get
to know each other in a fun setting,” says Deepa Kamath, a
third-year at UFCOM. “The elements of self-discovery, safety
and creativity all break down barriers and allow us to build stronger
friendships. Retreats foster self-development and mental, emotional
and physical health in future physicians, and their popularity parallels
the trend toward better, more patient-based health care. After all,
unless we are happy and fulfilled, how can we make a difference in
the lives of our patients?”
These bonding and sharing experiences also help
to put our own struggles in perspective, as UFCOM third-year Jeremy
Mirabile discovered. “One
of my classmates recounted the story of his imprisonment when he
tried many times to escape his native country,” Mirabile says. “His
safety and survival were always uncertain. His experience made our
mundane concerns about grades and tests seem trivial. I returned
to the classroom humbled, with a new and balanced outlook about life.”
One year prior to our Florida retreat, 16 medical
students, most of whom were from the University of Virginia School
of Medicine,
gathered at a retreat site in Virginia’s Blue Ridge Mountains.
Many did not know each other well, and some were strangers. But all
grew closer through the weekend’s “Nature, Spirit and
Healing” theme. Over the course of an intensive two days, a
deepening friendship developed—something that would sustain
them back in the academic, day-to-day world.
While there have been several retreats held in
Virginia and Florida, other medical schools have instituted similar
programs. Columbia
University College of Physicians and Surgeons offers a full-day team-
and trust-building experience for second-year students. Half of its
second-year medical student body attended Columbia’s first
retreat last year. The University of Chicago Pritzker School of Medicine
is also one of several schools offering such a program.
Both students and faculty have been responsible
for initiating retreat programs. One such supporter is Dr. Allen
H. Neims, UFCOM emeritus
dean and professor of pharmacology and therapeutics. “Personal
growth is the real journey of life, and one we don’t emphasize
enough,” says Neims, who along with other faculty, helped sponsor
our first UFCOM medical student retreat because, as he says, “People
have to be growing on the inside as well as the outside - not just
in information. You need that kind of growth to have meaningful relationships
with patients.”
Different retreats may choose to focus on specific goals. Our Virginia
retreats were centered more on personal exploration and our connection
with nature and spirit, as well as one another. The Florida retreats
focused on community building, leadership responsibility and interpersonal
skills. However, each of the retreats managed to bring out all of
these elements in different ways. Whatever our focus at retreats,
we come back to ourselves, to a wholeness where spirit, mind and
body move in harmony. We see ourselves in each other, appreciating
both our diversities and our surprising similarities.
Interested in planning a retreat? Neims offers
the following advice: “Make
sure you have a core group of people who really want to do this.
Decide whether the retreat will be for the whole class or just for
interested members. [And remember,] timing can play a part in this
decision. For example, if [the retreat] is scheduled during an orientation
period, most or all of the class tend to participate, whether or
not participation is required. Look for faculty members to help you
find your way, to guide you during the process and support you with
the school administration. Find humanistically-oriented faculty members
- every school has them.”
The Arnold P. Gold Foundation, a nonprofit organization
dedicated to humanism in medicine and cultivating the tradition of
the caring
doctor, may be one place where you can seek help funding your retreat.
"I wish you could have
felt the
awkwardness and uncertainty as
we arrived at 'camp' Friday night.
I wish you could realize how
tangibly the attitude of the entire
group changed over the weekend.
I wish you could look into the eyes
I looked into that weekend,
as I saw for the first time a person
I had known for a year..."
~ Excerpted from third-year UFLCOM student
Alison Hartemink's poem
" A Fly on the Wall."
American Medical Student Association's The New Physician, April 2001 As the sun set on a mild January day, 42 students
formed a circle on the grounds of Horseshoe Lake Retreat and Conference
Center near
Gainesville, Florida, seeing only their silhouettes through the dusk.They
came from medical schools, colleges, and universities across the
country to attend AMSA's "Circle of Healers" National Humanistic
Medicine Retreat.
During nearly two days, facilitators Dr. Wayne Jonas and Pali Delevitt,
Ph.D.(c), led the participants in an exploration of issues of humanism,
balancing science and spirituality, open and honest group sharing,
healing touch, self-care and mindfulness in daily life, and global
perspectives on healing. The Arnold P. Gold Foundation, which is
dedicated to fostering humanism in medicine and supporting programs
that help cultivate caring physicians, sponsored the retreat.
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